The skills of living alone

I live alone most of the time. A person's life is often caught in a vicious circle. For example, once you develop an unconscious bad habit, you will quickly get used to it, or once you fall into a certain emotion, it will be difficult to get out of it. A mature person should learn to work as a team after entering the public society, but he should learn how to get along comfortably with himself when he is alone. Finding a way to make yourself full and happy is the biggest task given by loneliness. Mastering how to improve personal well-being or create a healthy environment is a very important skill. [basic]. Confirm the necessary items before you go out. I didn't have this habit before, but after several lessons of not bringing my wallet or keys, every time I went out, I had to confirm my obsessive-compulsive disorder before closing the door. One simple way is to recite a four-word mantra: reach out and ask for money. Stretch: ID card. Try to hide it in your bag. Don't put it on you. Hand: a cell phone. Charge the battery in advance and make sure the phone bill is sufficient. Yes: the key. If you have someone you can trust, it's best to keep a spare key with a friend or hide it in an office drawer. Money: wallet. You don't have to put a lot of cards, just have a credit card and enough cash. These four can be used at any time, be sure to bring them every time. 2. Remember to cut off water and electricity before you go out. Once I forgot to turn off the faucet and the toilet pump button and forgot the painful experience of recovery, and that month the water bill was very distressing. 

So people who are alone try not to go out in a hurry and prepare some time in advance, which can always be taken as a precaution. I don't like watching TV. I just unplug the power when the computer is used up. Therefore, we should pay more attention to things related to water and electricity. After watching "death is coming", it has been a little shadowy. 3. Cooking, washing, cleaning the room. If you don't have time to cook, try to eat less instant noodle food at the same speed. It is better to order bread and biscuits at home than instant noodles. Once bought a box of instant noodles to eat for half a month, the whole person is not in good condition, and then the intestines and stomach are often uncomfortable. Cooking is quite fun, but it is easier to be lazy to clean up and wash dishes. Don't be greedy every time, it's enough to learn one or two dishes at a time. For me, two simple dishes, fried meat with garlic and fried shredded potatoes, can be happy and satisfied with a bowl of Seaweed soup. If you eat less, you don't need a lot of food, just like your appetite, and make it easy to clean up. Be sure to wash the dishes and clean them immediately after a meal, there will be no end to procrastination, and the leftover soup should be thrown away in time. Don't think you can eat it next time. If you have time, learn a more complex dish, call three or five friends, hear everyone's praise, are even more proud. Washing clothes is still annoying for boys. I admit that I do it once a week. I put it all in the washing machine after wearing it. There is a small experience, when washing clothes, add a little toilet water, not only pleasant fragrance but also anti-mosquito effect in summer. 

The most important thing is socks, don't buy a lot of cheap ones, because when socks stink, the whole room will give off a strange smell. Wash your feet frequently and change your socks as much as possible every day. You'd better soak after changing. I usually wash them together for three or four days. The key to cleaning the room is to update it promptly. If you live alone, you should never buy a pile of rubbish or gadgets that you don't need, or buy a lot of clothes on a whim on Taobao. The less you have, the more you can focus on what is in front of you. There are only books, desks, computers and a few clothes in my room. That's enough. Keep the room ventilated, the air is not ventilated, it is easy to form a stagnant and depressing atmosphere. When cleaning, the principle is to remove unnecessary things, collect needed things for sorting, and clean up dust, if possible, the floor with a mop, I still like squatting on the ground to read. [upgrade] 1. Simple repairability. There is a toolbox at home. Do not panic when you encounter common failures such as blocked water pipes, light bulbs that need to be replaced, screws loose, computer crashes, and so on. You can first take a look at Baidu's method, and then slowly explore it yourself. It is not difficult. I just always feel that I can't do it. 2. Time management. Live alone, especially on weekends, when there is no one to urge you to eat, it is common to still stare at the computer in the middle of the night. At this time, the ability to arrange time is particularly important, otherwise, you will go to work with a gaunt face in the eyes of a panda the next day. Your overall mood will be affected. Because my working hours are relatively free, I am usually a little late in the evening. I still have more time to spare. In the past, when I was working in a Japanese company, it was fixed to be Rest at 10 p.m. every day. 

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I woke up at 6 a.m., washed my toothbrush, and woke up for a while before I went to read a book. I still feel very full every day. On the contrary, I am often busy with manuscripts until dawn and disturb the biological clock, so it is difficult to have both ends in the world. If you enjoy your freedom, you have to bear the corresponding pay. However, life will be very different if you can get into the habit of getting up an hour earlier than you need in the morning. This hour can be used for a trot, or you can leisurely eat breakfast, read newspapers, listen to lazy people hear lectures inside, watch a ted video to increase information, etc., over time, you will gain a lot. 3. Shopping. Furniture. If there are stores like Ikea and MUJI nearby, they are clean and simple, which can not only add different feelings to the home but also enhance happiness. If you want to buy furniture, you must buy what you can afford the most, buy something second-hand or something ugly and cheap, do not say it to look uncomfortable, it will break down carelessly, and if you stay in such a room for a long time, you will also have a sense of cheapness and disgust to yourself. Things will reflect the psychological changes in the heart. Shopping. Never buy too much at once. I always want to live alone and buy more so that I can avoid going there next time. But the truth is often like this, either eat more than half that night, or leave it unfinished for a long time, and finally throw away all the bad food. And it's tiring to carry it if you buy too much. Some daily necessities need to be made up immediately when they are gone. 

Don't buy paper towels, roll paper, plastic wrap, garbage bags, toiletries, and so on all at once. As soon as there are signs that they are used up or worn out, go and make up for them immediately because I have had half of the toilet paper before I found that the toilet paper is gone.Experience. Don't ask me how to solve the problem. If you like reading, it is recommended not to buy more, you can buy a kindle or similar electronic products unless it is a professional book or a special favorite, other entertainment books are available online, such as Douban Reading also provides a lot of books, absolutely enough. When I moved before, I had three big boxes of books, and most of them had not been finished yet. Medicine. There is an unexpected situation in the sky, there are misfortunes and good fortune for everyone. It's good to have a small medical kit at home, prepare some cold medicine, stomach medicine, mouth stickers, and so on, some minor ailments can also be solved immediately, instead of feeling sorry for yourself and sweating. Taobao and gadgets. Living alone, Taobao is a good thing, but there are also many times when you buy the wrong things or regret and don't bother to return on Taobao. At this time, if something can be thrown away, it should be a long lesson. If you are not willing to throw it away, give it to others. If you do not like things that you do not like, leave space and look at them as a nuisance. In addition, gadgets such as postcards and small gifts are either stored in a box or thrown away decisively, always in a mess, which can easily aggravate anxiety. The room should be refreshing, and everything you can see is what you need and like. " How can a person who can no longer give up the clothes he wears in his wardrobe give up his troubles? " -- "break up" 4. Time deposit. Things are unpredictable. 

Although it sounds cool to get drunk today, it won't be cool if you run out of money when it comes to spending money. Even if it is not much, it is an objective guarantee to save part of the income regularly every month. [advanced]. To pass the time as a former socialite, when I first lived alone, my favorite thing was to ask my friends to drink and chat. Or Wechat QQ Weibo Douban chatting endlessly about all kinds of SNS. But then I gradually found that these purely time-killing social ways, not only did not make me happy but more and more restless, after the end, just full of emptiness. Of course, I am a person who still likes to read books. There are many unfinished books at home. If I take anyone, I can spend a night. So for those who don't like reading, the Internet is naturally the first choice. Games, movies, Japanese and Korean dramas, American dramas, Thai dramas have everything. But in the right amount, please. After all, he is an adult, and it is not mature to indulge in the virtual world outside of work all the time. There are naturally many ways to pass the time, but what I admire most is learning. Prepare a reading notebook, a powerful online notebook such as impression notes, which can contain interesting and useful words or paragraphs seen online, while entertaining and relaxing, it can also promote knowledge and thinking. Take a look at it on the bus or subway, review the old and learn the new, turn interesting and useful knowledge into your use, and improve yourself unwittingly. If you have a pursuit of life, it is a good investment to apply for a training course. If you learn more about what is useful to you or what you are interested in, it may come in handy in the future. For example, a friend of mine studied software training in college, but later surpassed professional machinery and became an IT man. Some girls learn cooking training outside work, which has become a model of a good wife and mother who is a good cook.

 Dance, language, or skills, as long as you want to learn, to learn, study to pass the time, time will also give you a harvest. two。 When you feel lonely and find the meaning of life, sometimes you will panic. Once you stop everything and let you choose the next step, you will be at a loss, because, most of the time, we don't give ourselves the meaning to live. Our meaning is always defined by our parents, influenced by our friends, and dominated by our boss. The hardest thing in the world is to know yourself. What you are good at, what you are suitable for, what you like. No one is sure. We all like to express ourselves in front of others so much that it is difficult to calm down and talk to ourselves. Most of the time, they are led by the comments of others and look at themselves in turn. And the meaning of loneliness is here, people always need such time, and their peaceful coexistence, gentle watch. When I meditate, I often look at myself and feel my existence. Just sit there quietly and let your thoughts rise and fall. Let them come, let them go, never follow. Gradually forget yourself in the process. 

Slowly, you will feel that everything comes and goes calmly, and you are no longer in a hurry to catch anything, nor do you want to be upset about what you miss. Like constantly having a new understanding and sobriety of yourself, reflecting and awakening yourself every day, and constantly trying those new ideas and thoughts, life will gradually come out of its meaning. Life has no meaning, in the eyes of heaven and earth, life appears and disappears, what's the difference. However, for us, to find our way, so that we do not regret, do not regret, chic and say from the bottom of my heart, I have a good life. This is the greatest significance. One last piece of advice, even though you live alone, please don't live alone. Even if you are alone, don't be alone. It is best for someone to miss you, and at the same time, you will also miss people, whether they are friends or lovers, or relatives and relatives. If the phone hasn't rung for a long time, please take the initiative to call. Having love in your heart will make you stronger.